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Chicago BBW Body Worship Mistress

Take some time and check out this FAQ. It will help you plan seeing me, Chicago BBW Body Worship Mistress, Erin Black.

I’ve been a professional for over 6 years, and when I first started, I started as a pro-domme. I found myself limited by protocol and the expectations of those seeking my services, so I decided to toss the label aside. I use the term ‘Mistress’ for marketing and SEO reasons, really.

I’m a hedonist at heart, and I truly love what I do. An experience with me is filled with fun, laughter, and pleasure, not titles and slave protocol. In fact, I really prefer you don’t call me “mistress,”  Please, call me Erin. “Goddess” also works.

A fetishist, strictly speaking, is someone who requires something decidedly non-sexual to become aroused. Fetishes that revolve around body parts (feet, legs, etc), materials (leather, latex), clothing (stockings, yoga pants etc), activities (pegging, bondage), shoes, lipstick, and basically anything you can imagine exist. Fetishes are also completely normal and make life a whole lot more interesting. For me, my fetishes revolve heavily around body worship, my size, and the exchange of pleasure. I get really excited seeing the pleasure people experience from these particular activities. I love it so much, I decided to develop this site dedicated to smothering, trampling, body worship, and corporal punishment.

So glad you asked! 

Each experience comes with it’s own set of rules, so please take that into consideration when making your selection.

Parameters are as follows:

Body Worship– this varies, but is ultimately about you exploring me. Mutual touching, massage, and face sitting are all welcomed. I do this either clothed or unclothed, and prefer the latter. If you enjoy worshipping the feet of 2 women at once, I offer foot fetish sessions with Cassandra Marks. 

Tease and Denial– known also as ‘edging,’ this style of play keeps you on the edge and brings you back and forth from that edge with skill and communication. This is often combined with light bondage, sensory deprivation, and a little bit of body worship. 

Trampling and Smothering– For those who want to test their strength or be completely consumed by a particular area of my body. Trampling normally involves being walked on, jumped on, or otherwise taking my full weight on your abdominal area, thighs, and chest. This requires you to be very active and strong during our play together and it is quite a workout. Smothering is about being consumed with a part of my body (ass, feet, breasts, armpits, etc) and often also involves breath play. 

Corporal Punishment– I love flogging, paddling, spanking (both OTK or over my spanking bench), and strapping. It’s a release for my sadistic tendencies, for sure. While role play may be appropriate here (I prefer mommy or disciplinarian roles), role play is not my forte. I offer duos for punishment sessions with Cassandra Marks. 

I delisted from TER in January of 2018, and have a no-review policy. If you’re interested in reading some of my reviews, I’m happy to send you one or two applicable screen shots.

It’s pretty easy, honestly.

You’ll need to confirm our date within 24 hours of our date. I’ll send you an email, and once you confirm, I’ll send further instructions. Your deposit is also required at the time of booking, and I’m happy to discuss options via email. 

Come well-groomed and freshly showered. If you need a shower, one is available for you. 

 

Quite honestly, any of the experiences I offer can be tailored specifically to beginners! I really love showing folks the ropes when it comes to sensual kink and sensual BDSM. The experiences I offer are tailored towards specific interests, but there’s lots of cross-over. Should you want to combine different areas together, do let me know and we can develop an experience specifically just for you. 

Perhaps you’re not specifically looking for kinky play and are more interested in a GFE escort experience? If that’s you, please see erinblackchicago.com.

Sensual domination, body worship, and woman-led experiences are really the name of the game here. I do however also enjoy giving anal experiences, CBT, and latex fetish. If you’re looking for an anally focused experience, please see erinblackhasafetish.com.

If you’re looking to spend more than 2 hours with me, or are looking for an experience that’s broader, please see erinblackchicago.com

Absolutely! I love when folks share their favorite things with me. 

I do love deposits, as they’re a way to state you’re serious about our time together. A deposit may be requested depending on the type and length of experience you’re looking for. 

Deposits are generally required for all new friends, though. 

Cash is king. Other payment options are selectively available. 

If you’re coming to my incall, please place my fee on the table when you first come in. I don’t care if it’s in an envelope or not, but please if you choose to use an envelope, make sure it’s unmarked. 

If I’m coming to you, please leave it in a conspicuous place that’s easy for me to find.

Payment is taken care of before we get started.

Please keep in mind that I don’t discuss my rate unless you’d like to extend your time.

I love to play with all sorts of people! Men, women, couples, gender non-conforming folks, trans folks, and everyone in between. I do not discriminate based on age, identity, ethnicity, or ability. If you do require accommodations for a disability, please do let me know ahead of time so we can talk about it. I like to make sure folks are as comfortable as possible. 

Please be aware that my incall is located in a non-elevator building, and you’re required to climb one flight of stairs. If you require more accessible accommodations, please let me know and we can arrange another location together.

I have a private incall space that’s domestic in nature and very well-equipped, and it’s located in the Ravenswood/Lincoln Square neighborhood of Chicago. Parking is free and plentiful, and the building is very discreet.

I also offer outcall! I’m available all over the Chicagoland area as long as my transportation is provided for. Outcalls to The Loop, River North, and most Chicago neighborhoods are no additional cost.

I take playdates between 11am-9pm Monday-Saturday, by appointment. If you’d like to see me outside of those hours, please add 20% to my rates.

Same-day dates can be taken with 2-3 hours notice.

I’m a 5’10” blue-eyed, blonde-haired, heavily tattooed Amazonian woman. I’m very strong.

US size 14/16, 38G bra size. Size 10.5/11 in shoes, depending on brand. 

I love scotch aged in sherry barrels, reposado tequila, 18-year Calvados, and wine. 

I have a particular love for Rombauer Chardonnay, Kabinett Rieslings, Rosé Champagne, Domaine Carneros sparkling wine, Burgundy, Bordeaux blends (St. Emilion is a fave for red, Graves for white), and Rosé from Tavel in the summer months.

Chocolate is great, but I prefer it dark and encompassing either toffee or espresso beans. 

Amazon/Sephora/Vanilla Visa gift cards are always welcome, too. So is tipping, but it’s not ever required.

I do.

If you’ve booked in advance:

If you decide to cancel a date that you’ve deposited and confirmed on, you forfeit your deposit. If you don’t need to cancel but would like to reschedule, please do let me know so that we can move our schedules around without causing deposit loss.

Should you cancel indefinitely and want to rebook in the future, a whole new deposit will be required to hold the date. Your deposit is good only if you reschedule in two weeks time. Meaning you have to have another date selected and booked within 2 weeks time of your cancellation. The date you select can be booked up to a month out from the original date.

If I ever need to cancel, I will of course refund you in full. If I ever need to shuffle a confirmed date around due to a scheduling faux-pas on my end, I’m happy to add an additional 30 minutes to our date.

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